Tuesday, February 9, 2021

Tuesday 4! Valentine's Day



Welcome to Tuesday 4. I am sure Toni would be so pleased you are here.

Hosted by Annie! 


Let's talk about St. Valentine's Day.

1. St Valentine paid for the weddings of poor girls. Today weddings can cost a fortune. What do you think about wedding expenses?  Well, my  mother worked long hours to provide beautiful handmade cake table skirts, and other decorations to defray costs.  I had a beautiful wedding and reception, but we cut corners here and there...for example, I opted to have a private wedding , inviting the very closest friends and family only.  That way we used th3 church flowers at the reception.  That saved quite a bit. Then invited everyone to a wonderful reception with heavy hor’doeurves.  We danced with an amazing pianist. Friends said my wedding was very memorable, and, of course, it was 1972, but it lost less than $3,000.  



 
    

In contrast in 2005, our daughter’s wedding cost $20,000.  And  we, mother’s did an amazing amount of work to cut costs. We made the pew decor, the table arrang-
ments, and some of the chapel flowers.  Go figure! 

2. Do you or did you send Valentines to people? I like to send Jacquie Lawson online greetings to friends and family.

3. Do you find Valentine's Day to be romantic?  I do.  Hubs always take us to dinner somewhere special, but not on Valentine’s Day.. we find the menu is too limited. He always sends me roses! 

4. Do you do anything special for Valentine's Day with partners or family?  I think I partly answered this!  I am sending valentines to our grands and daughter, plus a lovely box of candy to share! 

Happy Valentine's Day folks.




11 comments:

  1. I never really added up the expense of my wedding. These days weddings cost so much more, even when mothers so a lot of the work. Your sweet mother did so much for yours!

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  2. I imagine your daughter's wedding was absolutely lovely. You show us your good taste here on the blog all the time. I have to admit I am staggering a bit at the price tag after you cut corners. Wow. But, hey, if it's affordable for you then I am all for brides having what they want.

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  3. Beautiful wedding pics! Happy Tuesday!

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  4. I bet your wedding and your daughter's wedding were both beautiful! Have a Happy Valentine's Day!

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  5. I loved both wedding pictures, both of you were pretty brides. Mr D and I also had a private ceremony, it was at our church but only family attended. We never do anything 'big' for Valentine's Day, he will get me a card and we'll go out to eat. Simple and nice. Romance? you can find it in simple and nice!!

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  6. Mary, well, if you love the one you’re with, sounds romantic to me!

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  7. Hi Schotzy:
    I really enjoyed your answers.
    Lovely wedding pictures!
    Ron always gets me some candy hearts.
    Have a great week.

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  8. Great wedding pictures! Happy Valentine's Day to you and yours!!

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  9. Love the pictures, your daughter is beautiful!

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  10. Love the wedding pictures. Your cake was amazing!
    Your daughter is so pretty.
    I find we spend way too much on the wedding. Mine was in 1990 and cost us 7000$ (not counting the honeymoon - 3000$ a 1week trip to Florida from Quebec Canada). Around here, nowadays, the youngsters do not invite the extended families by obligation... only the ones they WANT there, which is a good thing.

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  11. what beautiful wedding photos enjoyed your answers

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