What.. Where...How?
Let's ask ourselves some questions.
1. What was the worst date you ever went on? That would have to be when I did a blind date for a friend . She begged me to go because otherwise she'd have no date because her college beau had no wheels. Lynn was in the military and he knew Id be sociable .. I was in college after all. But he knew he could trust me. Well,
no problem not trusting me on this date. The guy was beyond
horrible, tall, rotund, ugly glasses, and stuck on himself.
Of course, as he was driver, I was riding shotgun as close to
the door as possible. We went to the drive in of all things. Of course,
the back seat was getting a bit fogged over, and I was sitting up
front wishing my life completely away. I could tell he was hating
me, because his evening wasn't exactly fun. But I couldn't stand
talking to him., and the movie was not my style.. rated r for
murder and mayhem.The door handle was getting all my attention.
I can't remember but I think he kicked me to the curb when we
got back to the dorm. I was just glad it was OVER!
2. How was the nicest date you ever had?Lynn rarely took us out
for dinner.. we usually ate at my house before going out. but
one evening he did take me out for pizza, then a movie.That was
what I called a real date, not just cruising up and down William-
son Road, seeing who could get a wheelie fastest, and then stop-
ping my the airport to park for an hour. I mean that was all fun,
but having a real date was super nice. I'm not sure but I think
the movie was On Her Majesty's Secret Service.. Yeah, I'd say a
Jame Bond date deserved a pizza dinner!
3. Where did you grow up and how did you like it? Are you far
away from there now?I have always lived in the same town
except for the year I lived in Germany while Lynn served in
the Army.I grew up at the very edge of the postal code. I
mean the county line started at the end of my street. So our
neighborhood sprang up on farmland and we bought our
house when I was two. And it was the second house built in
that section, so I grew up watching the other homes being
built. Sometimes, we kids played around on the building lots
in red clay that my mom spanked me for bringing home on
my clothing! Well, the spanking was for not minding her the
first time. Yeah, I grew up in the spanking era. Mom grew
forsythia bushes as a huge hedge between our house and the
neighbors. They are beautiful, but mom, also, used them as
my deterrent for being bad. "Carolyn, go pick your switch!"
Yeah, I heard that a time or 10. I was a slow learner. I was
an only child, and most of the kids around us were older, so
I was usually the one they blamed when we got caught doing
stuff. "She did it!" Oh, well, live and learn. But I loved those
years going up. It helped to toughen me up which I would need
later as a teen. I won't go into that. But again, I loved grow-
ing up in the 50's That was a wonderful decade. I loved grow-
ing up in the 60's whose music cannot be topped. So it was
a grand youth.. I loved it scabby legs and all!
4. What did kids do for fun and dates when you were young?
We had very little for the youth ... I mean Lynn and I didn't
have a lot of money to spend on dates so we usually just cruised
back and forth from Lendy's on Williamson Road to Lendy's
on Franklin. That was pretty fun because Lynn's dad had bought
him a new Plymouth Satellite with a big engine, and 4 in the floor,
so we rumbled quite a bit down the avenue! Then we parked. But
during the parking... we parked out by the airport on a dirt lane.
There were other cars, too, and it was wonderful because it was
on a ridge above the runway and watching the planes land was a
real treat. We had the radio on and we sang along on every song.
Some of our school mates went out to a night club for teens. They
were drinking and well, I dont know, but I never darkened that
door. In the summer we had Lakeside. ... an amusement park a mile
from my house. It was quite something; buses from all over the east
coast came there in the summer. Lynn and I went there a lot.
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I enjoyed reading about your dating experiences. The blind date sounds horrendous especially as you couldn't exactly leave and you were in an enclosed space. It seemed like our generation liked to cruise the streets, lol.
ReplyDeleteHow fun to hear about your memories growing up.
ReplyDeleteI am pretty sure most of you are writing about blind dates as your worst date. I had a blind date once, but it went very well. We were together for a year or so. I had some real stinky dates though. Loved your answers! Have a nice week! ♥
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This was such fun to read!Thanks for joining in!
ReplyDeleteSounds like a great time when you were young. We didn't have cars. We were not allowed to drive without a license and the age was higher than it is now.We always had to go on bicycle. As I had a well paying job I went to work on a moped.
ReplyDeleteAnd we didn't have an amusement park near our house...sounds like great fun!
Oh, SYL, I see that you are from the Netherlands.My husband was in The military in German in 1971-73. I spent a year there with him teaching school. We took a long weekend bus tour of the Netherlands and I absolutely loved it so much. Amsterdam, Rotterdam, the Flower Auction, the windmills, and canals,the cheese, the wood shoes, Volendam, , huekenhof gardens… sorry can’t spell it, but it was magnificent. Everything seemed so magical. I think Volendam was my favorite!
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